Service is at the core of what a D/s dynamic is built on.  For a Dominant who loves to care, guide and provide, or a submissive who loves to serve and please, seemingly nonsexual acts of service spark a flame of excitement and passion inside.  It is important for you to bring forth what you excel at.

Dominants provide for their pets in infinite ways.  We bring a unique type of happiness and satisfaction that can only be found through this special time spent together. As in any type of relationship, we each seek out that experience for our own personal reasons. Regardless of what those reasons are, it is more rewarding when both people decide to come together to make the encounter pleasurable for all involved.

Negotiating Desire

The D/s dynamic is a give and take relationship that requires care and balance.  This lifestyle is often misunderstood and seen as strange in certain ways, but I believe it to be a wise way of being. In order to successfully navigate the intricacies of any sort of relationship with another person, you must make a conscious effort to work on communication skills. With communication comes clarity, and with clarity comes contentment.

In a D/s dynamic, much negotiating is required, and therefor, we find ourselves talking often. We talk about what we want, what we like, how to push our boundaries and how to create the life that brings us the most joy. Creating joy in each others’ lives is what it’s all about. It is about more than just sex, indulgence or release. It is about the betterment of both people as humans.

Thoughtfulness

Some of the most crucial needs a person may have are not sexual in nature. They often present as a lesson in selflessness and generosity. That being said, for a Dominant who loves to care, guide and provide, or a submissive who loves to serve and please, these seemingly nonsexual acts still spark a flame of excitement and passion inside.

Being an efficient partner, participant, Dom or sub means looking inside yourself. What are you capable of providing? What are your strengths and weaknesses? Pay attention to both praise and criticism to gain insight. Don’t be afraid to ask how you can do better, and be willing to help your Dom or sub learn these things about themselves as well as about you.

Serving Goddess Kelly

My submissives often ask how they might please or serve me.  Service is at the core of what a D/s dynamic is built on. Bring forth what you excel at.  It is about making my life easier and more enjoyable by using what you have to offer to your advantage. It is expressing your gratitude for all I do for you and the good times we have. You know that I show my gratitude towards you in my own ways as well.

Domestic Service

You may gravitate towards domestic service, finding the clear cut start to finish task of cleaning to bring you comfort. Whether it’s deep cleaning my house and organizing once a month, or coming over to pick up after a day of sessions; you take the stress and responsibility off my shoulders. You are useful when I have something to fix or a light bulb to change. Building things or painting is your strong suit.

Art and Creativity

If you’re artistic, you can make me smile by making something magnificent for me.  Help me decorate, pick out new furniture, or design graphics for my website.  Bring over your camera and let’s have a photo shoot.  Come and create with me.

Make My Tummy Smile

If you are a great cook, whip up a delicious vegan meal for me for dinner, take me to a fabulous restaurant, or even do my grocery shopping. Brew me espresso in the morning to start my day happy. Bring me sweets or home brewed beer after a long day of filming.

Soothing

Help me de-stress. Rub my feet and massage my back while diffusing relaxing essential oils. Read me poetry and play the piano or guitar. Learn to paint my nails.

This is what spoiling looks like.

Long Distance Service

If you live too far to see me frequently, there are other ways you can keep me happy.  Tribute generously to give me what I desire. Stay in touch through text and Skype.  Take me out to eat, buy my morning coffee each day, pick up tickets for a show I want to go to, book an appointment at the spa, help me with my business and show your unyielding support. Show me you care and you are serious about serving.

This is all part of being the best you you can be.

Updated April 2018

This short form is required if you want a chance to serve in any way:

MinneapolisFemdom.com

I am available for online servitude; slave training, mental domination, hypnosis, Goddess worship, findom, humiliation, foot fetish and cuckolding through skype, text, kik, and clips.

I do cash point meets, in person Pro-Dom sessions, and allow regular servitude at My discretion.

There are a few types of subs I am seeking. Understand these positions are a privilege. They are about what I want. Half-assing My requests in order to spend time with Me will not be tolerated. Topping from the bottom will get you blacklisted.

I stay busy and am only interested in those who wish to make My life easier and help Me reach My goals.  All positions will begin with an in person meet or drinks/coffee so I can get to know you.  If you are respectful and obedient,  I will put you in consideration for regular use.

Clip Slave
– Must book initial paid session with me so I can guarantee we will work well together.
– Be willing to perform in clips or have our time together recorded.
– Specifically looking for those interested in taking some abuse; impact play, cbt, ballbusting, etc…
– I’m interested if you have access to a beautiful/interesting/kinky location to film at, regardless of if you’re performing or not.
– Bonus points if you are attractive or have special knowledge or skills in a specific fetish.  Bring something to the table.

Masochist
– An attractive, submissive, masochistic pain slut.  Open to any gender, but particularly love beating up big/tall dudes.

Financial Slave
– Take me shopping, out to dinner and events, pay for My lifestyle.

Fem Sub
– Seeking fem pets for personal play and clips.

Let Me know where you fit in. Fill out My meet request form and I’ll get back to you.

MinneapolisFemdom.com

It is quite adorable to Me how many men come to Me with the same little “secret”…  They get so shy and nervous letting certain words slip out of their mouths.  It’s great to witness the blend of shame and relief that washes over their face when they finally confess the secret desires they’ve been keeping inside for years.  You’re not alone.  You may think you’re the only guy who has these sexual fantasies running through your mind, but let Me share the truth.  That’s why you come to Me and look to Me for guidance and wisdom.  Goddess always knows best.

This fantasy is much more common than you think, and that’s why I want to be the one to encourage all men to explore it to the fullest.  It’s time to give in to your desire to be a cock sucking slut.  You can only run from it for so long.  When something is nagging at the back of your mind for years, eventually you must give in.  I’m here to give you permission to indulge.  Let go of inhibition and go for what you truly want.  It’s what I want for you, too.

Fetish aside, I think there is something powerful to be said about sharing a sexual experience with another person of your same sex or gender.  The feeling of familiarity in sharing intimate sensations you can both relate to.  If it were up to Me, everyone would be pansexual.  Think outside of what you were always told to believe and open your mind.

Now back to the kinky stuff.  Once you’ve let down your guard and accepted that I want you to be a fully sexual being, we can focus on turning you into a sex robot for Princess.  No limits, no boundaries, no restraint.  Your only guidelines are the ones I give you.  It always works out better when I do the thinking for you, and this situation is no different.  No thoughts, no protest, just surrender.  It feels so good to give in.

I’ve created this slut training series just for you.  The purpose is to condition your mind to the idea of being a fuck slut and using your mouth for My amusement.  I want you to suck cock.  You need to suck cock.  I want to break down the walls you have of being used by Me with men and guide you down the path of sluttiness.  This is a perfect first step.  When you’ve finally taken cock, the rest of your slut transformation will come even easier.

Practice each step for a week, and soon enough you’ll be on your way to the slutty life you were meant for.

Complete these slut training tasks in order with the corresponding videos:

You’re Only as Straight as Princess Says

Practice your Slut Skills

Showing Off The Whore

Whore yourself Out

It’s Time to Take Cock

Suck your Friends Cock

I’ve started a new training series called Weekly WisDomme. The first installment is about female dominance and male submission.  I’ll be releasing a new clip every Monday. Mondays are hard for a lot of people. Getting into the habit of beginning your week with purpose and intention will help ease some of the anxiety. Rather than just struggling through the motions, it is more effective to create meaning in life. Finding that meaning can be difficult. Many submissive men find comfort in surrendering to the guidance and training of a powerful, dominant woman. Trusting your Domme and accepting her teachings with obedience frees up room in your mind to truly grow.

If you desire to be a good submissive, you must constantly work on bettering yourself. It is not only your responsibility to Me, but to women everywhere. In a society built on the oppression of women, as a man, you must hold yourself and your peers accountable.

If you sincerely love and worship women, that adoration must extend past the five minutes it takes you to jerk off to one of My clips. There is a difference between sexual objectification, and playing a consensual role. When I instruct your behavior or to embrace your sexuality, it is appropriate to get into that mind set. After our scene is done, I still fully expect your respect, regardless if the focus is based on sex or not. I want you to take the respect you have for Me and other women you admire and let it translate into your treatment and outlook of all women.

You must unlearn subconscious thought patterns and behaviors that are holding you and women back. Open your mind and take the first step in becoming a real man. Humiliation and degradation are hot fantasies, but at the core of every sub, he must strive to be the best he can be for his Domme. Use the energy you gain from the excitement of surrender and vulnerability to look inside yourself. Become the type of man who can impress your Goddess. Submissive men have a very important job in helping to create a beautiful world for the women they adore. You may feel weak and inferior to other men, but the fact is, your submission is meant for women. Lead the way for stubborn “alpha” guys (a term I personally despise and don’t believe in.) Male submission can be a positive healing tool for society. It is more than just sex. Male training is necessary for progress.

Learn more every week with My WeeklyWisDomme Training Series

#1 – Introduction to Female Dominance

Watch the preview here:

• Princess is always right.
• Do not bother Me until you have sent a tribute.  If you want to chat, call My phone sex line.
• I decide how much My time is worth.  If I tell you to send more than I did yesterday, don’t question it.
• Don’t ask for discounts.  Serving Me is a luxury.
• If you pre-pay and leave during our session, our session is over.  There will be no splitting up into two sessions etc.  You will need to pay again.  Same rule applies if you pay and then tell Me you can’t do the session now.  Rescheduling is a burden to Me and therefor not an option.
• If you want Me to consider you as My slave, you will buy all My clips and tribute regularly without being prompted.
• Always spoil and know your place.
• No fucking complaining.

This blog post is long over due, obviously hahaha.  I’ve been spending all My time making super hot femdom clips!  I do enjoy keeping you Princess addicts up to date on My life, though.  Any way, as you know, I went to the yearly Vegas meet up in January for the AVN Adult Entertainment Expo.

Kinkbomb Dinner at Giada

The Vegan babes. 😉 Love Amara Noir. <3

I had such a lovely time hanging out with all the beautiful Dommes.  Kinkbomb hosted many amazing dinners and parties and we all had the most incredible time.  You losers would just die if you could even breathe the same air as all these gorgeous Dominant women!  So much hotness in one place!

Kinkbomb party at Beacher’s Mad House

My hotel room at Vdara was stunning, gorgeous and relaxing.  I took quite a few phone and webcam calls on Skype and NiteFlirt while lounging in My comfy bed, sipping champagne and ordering room service (paid for by you pay pigs, of course!)  Made so much cash draining you pay bitches, hahaha.  Vacationing as a Financial Dominatrix is so much fun because I literally don’t have to pay for anything Myself.  I don’t have to worry about anything because it’s all paid for by My addicted submissive slaves.

Draining bitches on webcam from My hotel room bed.

I filmed with quite a few very attractive friends and had so much fun.  We made some awesome fetish content and had a blast.  Like, seriously?  For our job we get to party and be hot and kinky and make sexy videos and dominate losers.  What a life!

Buying expensive drinks at the bar with pay pig money with Princess Lacey and Aiden.

I filmed all sorts of femdom clips with Miss London Lix – Home Wrecker, Humiliation, Jerk Off Instruction, Orgasm Control, Femme Fatale, Executrix, and Shiny Fetish.

Filming evil femdom clips in shiny outfits with London Lix!

I did some hot bratty Financial Domination clips with Princess Lacey, as well as foot and shoe / boot fetish.  I did My first trampling clip ever with her and Jason Ninja.  I can only imagine how jealous you foot fetish freaks were, imagining My feet being all over YOUR pathetic face!  Haha, in your dreams, bitch.

Filming a hot, bratty trampling clip with Princess Lacey and Jason Ninja.

Aiden and I did some majorly hot alien babe Giant/ess and shrinking fetish clips, in our hot outfits and sexy boots!

Bow down, losers.

Honestly, kinky people are the best people.  All the friends I made in Vegas are some of the greatest people ever.  Which leads Me to mention how absolutely excited I am to be meeting up with many of them again this August for FetishCon in Florida!  You findom slaves know it is your life’s purpose to fund all the amazing things I do in life, living vicariously through My pleasure.  It pleases you to make Me happy, and the only way most of you little subs can do that is with your wallet.  Open up wide, piggy, it’s time to spend.  Be a good boy and send tributes through IWantClips.  It feels so good to obey. 🙂

You are WELCOME for this update, I am sure you thoroughly enjoyed it!  I loved reminiscing on these photos and I can’t wait to play with My hot friends again soon.  Be sure to buy all My new femdom, humiliation, financial domination and other fetish clips.  True, devoted slaves buy them ALL.  You want to be the best at *something* don’t you??? 😉  P.S. I updated My Amazon Wishlist and am now accepting summer findom slaves!  Contact Me for more info…